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Florence Ann Romano Build Your Village

Florence Ann Romano Build Your Village

Our guest this week is Florence Ann Romano, an accomplished author, childcare advocate, and champion of family support. In this episode, we explore the profound influence of Florence Ann’s grandparents, who instilled a deep understanding of the importance of fostering connections.

They imparted the invaluable lesson that building strong connections and inviting others into our hearts is a source of strength rather than weakness. With over 15 years of experience as a nanny, Florence Ann has not only authored books and advocated for childcare but has also been actively involved in organizations supporting pediatric research and childhood education. As a founding member of Sesame Street’s Leadership Council, Florence Ann is affectionately known as “Auntie Lo” to the honorary kids in her life.

She is also the author of the new book, Build Your Village, which she wrote after the COVID pandemic, when it became evident that nearly everyone globally was having trouble rebuilding quality connections.

Everyone needs a community of supportive people around them. Join us in this episode to discover the six archetypes of a healthy community, how to find the right people for your village, and what to do when your village is lost.

What We Discuss in this Episode

  • Defining the concept of a “Village” and understanding how to create one.
  • Identifying the life stages where having a Village is most crucial.
  • Strategies for recognizing potential villagers.
  • The significance of the six archetypes and whether all six are necessary.
  • Ensuring that you have the right people in the right seats within your Village.
  • Practical tips for effectively requesting the support and help you need.
  • How to become a better villager to those in your community.
  • Common obstacles that hinder people from building their own Village.
  • Navigating the challenges when your Village is disrupted or lost.
  • Hearing about personal experiences in identifying needs and constructing one’s own Village.

Podcast Highlights

  • [02:02]- It takes a village to raise a child
  • [04:52]- Global loss leads to difficulty reconnecting
  • [08:10]- New experiences necessary for change and growth.
  • [10:07]- Six archetypes of people for your Village.
  • [16:30]- Another drama: discuss, reevaluate, support, betrayal.
  • [18:05]- Ask for what you need, avoid expectations.
  • [22:55] Opportunity for deeper conversations with friends.
  • [23:49]- Capacity, time, presence, communication, successful friendships
  • [27:24]- The struggle of rebuilding after a loss.
  • [30:51]- Gauge if relationships are too big.
  • [34:43]- Seek happiness and navigate life transitions.
  • [37:24]- Consider your village, make it better.

Join us for a tour of this episode’s highlights, where we delve into the essence of creating a ‘Village,’ the significance of the six archetypes, practical tips for seeking support, and much more. Discover the keys to building and maintaining a thriving support network in your life.

Favorite Quotes

“It takes a ‘Village‘ in so many ways in our lives. All of us have (and need) some sort of community whether or not we have children.”

“There’s no stage in life where we don’t need a village.”

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